- Vince Gilligan And The Dark Comedy Of Breaking Bad from SplitSider
- Breaking Bad Season 5 from Slate
- 20 Breaking Bad Locations In Real Life from Twisted Sifter
- The Real Walter White (is a woman) from Salon
- Breaking Bad With A Crotch Grab, an essay from The Good Men Project about why men do that and what it might mean.
- The blue meth on Breaking Bad is rock candy.
- So, You’re Looking To Break Into The Meth Business: A Guide from Thought Catalog
- ‘Mythbusters’ tests some stuff off Breaking Bad.
- Do you find Skyler annoying? I think she’s remarkably calm and reasonable given the circumstances, but I know people who can’t stand her… all the while rooting for the meth cooks. Why is that?
- Breaking Bad Fan Art, a Tumblr blog
- Character Empathy In The Breaking Bad Pilot, by me, ages ago. The day I fell in love.
- I Hate Walter White from Salon
- A cat dressed as Walt White from BF. It really does look like him
- Breaking Bad Plush Toys, because you know, this show just screams ‘Plush’, from Laughing Squid
- Also at Laughing Squid, a video which depicts Breaking Bad so far as an 80s style computer game.
Links For Fans Of Breaking Bad
The Joy Of Book Ownership
My brothers and I had a lot of picturebooks as kids in the 80s, especially Golden Books. But for some reason the book buying came to an end in primary school. By the time we were teenagers I guess we were expensive enough, and book gifts dried up completely. Books were hell expensive in New Zealand and I guess that’s partly why.
As a consequence, the books I did own, I cherished. And I’m still not sure if I cherished books more simply because they weren’t on tap.
Fast forward about 25 years and I’m wondering why our five-year-old isn’t all that keen on books. I know, I know, there’s still time.
But there are also iPads. And there are several entire TV channels dedicated to advertisement-free children’s programs here in Australia, when all we had to watch, apart from Dif’rent Strokes and Happy Days, which don’t count (becuz!) Oh and there were also re-runs of Adam Ant, Huckleberry Finn and Scooby Doo — and I’m not even talking about re-runs of different episodes — three weekends in a row the schedulers played EXACTLY THE SAME EPISODES of these crappy shows in exactly the same order, and I’m still not over it. Obviously.
Although restricting TV remains a modern option, as is the restriction of wi-fi, it’s easier said than done when you’re a regular user of wi-fi yourself — and although you swore you’d never let your kid have a TV in their bedroom we are now living in the future gramps, so little kiddies can sneak an iPad into anywhere and with their tech-savvy little fingers they can watch anything via government-issue TV apps (which, yes, I have deleted on more than one occasion).
Also, I love books and our house is full of books, and when something is abundant it drops in value. Spare cupboards around here are not filled with unseasonal stashes of clothes, spare woollen blankets, boxes of screwdrivers and those other useful items I imagine other people keep in their spare cupboards — our spare space is currently filled with books, and a lot of them are kids’ books. And still, our kid keeps going back to the same old shitty ‘written from an episode of Crap On TV’ by Unknown Writer, illustrated by W. Outsourced, and these books somehow found their way into the house.
Why doesn’t our kid appreciate books? (Apart from the bedtime story, of course, which is a way of prolonging awake time.) She sees me reading all the time. Check. There are plenty of excellent picturebooks on the bottom shelves. Middle Class Check. She doesn’t touch them of her own accord.
Then it struck me that she hasn’t picked any of these books herself. She has access to lots of books, but she doesn’t ‘own’ them. I only realised the importance of self-driven selection after she brought her own library book home from preschool. She’d chosen it herself, so it was more important than the high-quality stuff I’d selected online and parallel imported at a very reasonable cost from Book Depository. Even when I let her open the book mail (nothing better than book mail, amirite!?) in her mind, these were still my books, not hers.
So next time we ventured to the mall I decided to do my bit for bricks and mortar bookstores (well, technically that’s not a plural) and buy an actual book (for about 40% more than I could get online, delivery included), and I would let the five-year-old choose it all by herself and I would not complain. And I would spark a lifelong interest in literature in one fell swoop. If all went well, one of the very knowledgeable staff would come over and get down on her level and use their excited voice.
Things didn’t go quite as well as they went in my own head. This happens a lot. Especially at the mall.
First, the kid was far more excited about the free Westfield balloon she’d just asked for at the information desk. (The balloon comes on a stick, which happens to be exactly the length of my torso, which places the balloon at the exact height of my godforsaken head.)
The bookstore was reassuringly busy, but only if you counted the bodies. We were the youngest in there by a long shot — I’d say by at least 20 years.
We were approached by a goth looking young woman who knew her books. I told her the situation, why we were here, left off the bit about how generous I was, visiting an actual store rather than saving money by importing at American prices, and we were led to the picturebook section where she ignored the kid and showed me Mo Willems’ latest, and then a Lemony Snicket, and they were beautiful works of art. I wanted them. This chick had great taste in picturebooks. JUST LIKE ME.
The kid wasn’t interested in lavishly illustrated slightly ironic picturebook literature, however, and was immediately drawn to about the ONLY THING on the whole darn shelf which was pink and sparkly. There were actual literal PONIES AND FAIRIES on it.
I have to admit, I went back on my word and I did not let her buy — with adult money — the thing that she wanted most in the entire world, because of my own consumer philosophies.
She did, however, grab another book off the rack which she already knew from preschool. It was a New Zealand book and it came with a CD and I’m happy to support the publishing industry of my own country (because it needs some help) and as we walked away from the counter, a dude yells out, “Have fun with the balloon!” and I seriously doubted whether the kid even cared about the book. The free balloon was way more fun than anything, and I suspected she’d grabbed any old book off the rack to shut her book-loving tiger mother up.
However. I am pleased to report that later that night, after the excitement of the balloon had worn off, she found the new book, asked her father to read it before bed, and very carefully insisted the CD went back into its sleeve after listening to the song. She wants to take it to preschool to show the teachers that she has EXACTLY THE SAME BOOK, because that’s very cool if you’re five and you don’t understand the concept of mass printing.
It remains to be seen whether this bookshop strategy works, or whether it turns this only child into a spoilt brat at the mall. I’ll let you know.
Habits
By the time you get to be a big fancy adult with a career and a house, your daily routine is basically just a collection of unconscious habits: You make coffee, commute by car, attend meetings and answer e-mails, shop in certain stores, watch TV and repeat. It becomes effortless. Your brain goes into autopilot. Unfortunately, this also means it becomes hard to make changes.
To change a habit, you must keep the old cue, and deliver the old reward, but insert a new routine. That’s the rule: If you use the same cue, and provide the same reward, you can shift the routine and change the habit. Almost any behavior can be transformed if the cue and reward stay the same.
- The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business, by Charles Duhigg
When I’m in writing mode for a novel, I get up at 4:00 a.m. and work for five to six hours. In the afternoon, I run for ten kilometers or swim for fifteen hundred meters (or do both), then I read a bit, and listen to some music. I go to bed at 9:00 p.m. I keep to this routine every day without variation. The repetition itself becomes the important thing; it’s a form of mesmerism. I mesmerize myself to reach a deeper state of mind. But to hold to such repetition for so long–six months to a year–requires a good amount of mental and physical strength. In that sense, writing a long novel is like survival training. Physical strength is as necessary as artistic sensitivity.
- Habits: How They Form And How To Break Them, from NPR
- How Habits Hold Us, from WSJ
- The Four Habits That Form Habits from Zen Habits
- How Do You Break Bad Habits? from Farnam Street
- Developing Good Study Habits Really Works from PT
- The effort required to change behavior requires deeper changes than we anticipate.
Anxiety
Identifying A Nagging Sense Of Anxiety from Artist’s Road
Uncomfortable photographs examine what it’s like to deal with anxiety from io9. Here’s the rest of them.
Your Emotions Are What You Eat: How Your Diet Can Reduce Anxiety from Big Think
Worrying Enormously About Small Things: How I survive anxiety and you can, too. At Slate
Interesting Links On Jane Austen And Her Work
1. The Skeptical Pride And Prejudice, from Greta Christina, in which the first sentence is updated somewhat, and sounds like psych-speak.
2. Jane Austen By Name, Badass Hipster Rebel By Nature from Zouch
3. There’s a Jane Austen board on Pinterest. Probably heaps of them, actually. But that’s the one that impressed me.
4. Some people think that this might be a portrait of Jane Austen.
5. This is your brain on Jane Austen from Stanford University News
6. What Matters In Jane Austen? from The Passive Voice
7. What Jane Austen Can Teach Us About How The Brain Pays Attention from Scientific American
8. Writer Creates Jane Austen Spellcheck List To Get Language Correct For Period Novel from The Mary Sue
9. Maiden-aunt takes up expensive, time-consuming hobby from The Rumpus
10. How My Jane Austen Prejudice Turned To Pride from Speakeasy
11. Is Jane Austen So Popular Because She Just Kinda Writes A Highbrow Version Of Twilight? from Jezebel
12. Jane Austen’s ‘literary fingerprint’ the biggest of 19th century writers from Page Views
13. Memories of Austen and Pride and Prejudice from The Hairpin
14. Was Pride and Prejudice Inspired by Jane Austen’s First Love? from WSJ
15. Is Jane Austen Over-hyped? from Slate
16. The Jane Austen Guide To Manliness from The Tyee
17. Jane Austen Stamps Go On Sale from The Guardian, and they are beautiful.
18. Four Things Jane Austen Actually Teaches Us About Love from Flavorwire
19. Jane Austen novels, ranked. From Slate
20. 200 Years of Pride and Prejudice Book Covers from the Atlantic
21. Reading Jane Austen: The Ultimate Brain Workout from PV
22. Why Mr Darcy Is Over-rated says everything I think about Darcy. I’ve wondered for a while now what men think of him. I have no idea why so many women swoon. That man is a prick. From Daily Life.
23. Jane Austen’s Most Famous Trolls, Critics, and Doubters from Flavorwire
What True Equality May Look Like
Did you ever feel you had to do something extra raising black children in white places?
A whole lot. It’s very hard to raise black children, especially black sons, because that’s the target. You have to constantly undo the negative, when they come home with stories from school. When Michael Jr. went to school, they were touching his hair. He was the only non-white child in the class and he came home and told me about it. I called the principal and asked them to allow me to come to give a talk on Haiti. The principal was very open. It went very well. I made plantain chips. The kids ate the entire bowl and asked when I was going to bring more. I explained that the way they feel Michael’s hair is different, he feels the same way about them. They never touched his hair again. They could point to where Haiti was, because I brought my globe. I explained Haiti was the first black republic in the world. From time to time you have to counter-attack, because they can destroy that child before he even has a chance.
Did you have similar concerns about raising a girl?
As long as women are not taken seriously, they will find their way, quietly, and become whatever they want to become. With black men, there is a pronounced opposition. When society starts taking women seriously, black women will have the same problems as black men.
- Roxanne Gay interviews her own mother, from full article at The Hairpin
Women’s Fiction. What is it?
ASN: What is your definition of women’s fiction?
LM: To me, women’s fiction is all about the journey, either external or internal. Women have so many roles in their lives, so many challenges and choices, it seems like a constant act of reinvention. Women’s fiction captures that. It’s not necessarily about a happy ending (although I love it when there is one!) it’s about what happens along the way.
-from this interview with author Liz Michalski
HOW IS IT DIFFERENT FROM CHICK LIT?
The difference between women’s fiction and chicklit.
DO WE REALLY NEED A SEPARATE GENRE CALLED WOMEN’S FICTION?
I don’t think genre is that useful really. I agree with this post, about seeing genre not in Boolean terms but as fuzzy logic. Originally, genre must have been invented to help audiences find their books, but is it possible that the over-genrefication of everything is stopping people from finding their favourite books?
Much Ado About Women’s Fiction from Women’s Fiction Writers
WTF Is Women’s Fiction? from Australian Women’s Writers Challenge
It’s time for an end to “women’s stories”: The never-ending parade of features about college hookup culture and other “women’s” topics is hurting everyone from Salon
Chick-lit. What is it?
“The term “chick lit” drives me absolutely insane, as it has no real, identifiable meaning except books by women, for women.”
What is chick-lit? from Book Riot
Jenny Geras says in The Guardian, The only problem with chick-lit is the name.
Authors who avoid the chick-lit stigma.
Chick-lit Could Be Hazardous To Your Health from Salon
Zadie Smith doesn’t like the depiction of sex in chick-lit.
Jennifer Weiner was right: What’s the difference between “chick lit” and literary fiction? from Salon
Our Obsession With Murder and Gore
So I watched the local news. Principally this consisted of a run-down of the day’s murders in Las Vegas accompanied by film from the various murder scenes. These always showed a house with the front door open, some police detectives shuffling around, a group of neighbourhood children standing on the fringes, waving happily at the camera and saying hi to their moms. In between each report the anchorman and anchorwoman would trade witless quips and then say in a breezy tone something like, ‘A mother and her three young children were hacked to death by a crazed axeman at Boulder City today. We’ll have a filmed report after these words.’
- Bill Bryson, from The Lost Continent
A REASON FOR HUMAN FASCINATION FOR GORE?
There were, however, aspects of Roman life that look alien to us. It was a slave-owning society, and the savagery of the games held in the Colosseum are legendary. Yet I would argue that it’s our technology that sets us apart from the Romans in these regards. We loathe slavery on moral grounds, but the functions once performed by slaves are oftentimes today performed by machines, and we have hardly weaned ourselves from our fascination with gore. Instead of seeing the real thing, however, we simulate it and broadcast it on television and in the cinema. There may, incidentally, be an evolutionary reason for this fascination. Birds will flock about if one of their number is caught by a hawk. Perhaps we’re genetically predisposed to observe such things from a safe distance, because we may learn how to avoid a similar fate.
- Tim Flannery from Here On Earth
Can a show about murdering women actually be feminist? About The Fall, from Salon, which I have yet to watch.
Anyone seen it? The article sums up why I can’t be bothered with Dexter — not that I could put my finger on it before, but if I’m ever going to have time for a show about murders and stuff, it would have to be empathetic towards victims, because the older I get, the less time I have for mindless gory entertainment.
More Interesting Links About Children’s Literature
- Children’s Book Layouts from Once Upon A Sketch
- Exploring Author’s Voice Through Picturebooks from Teach With Picturebooks
- The Subtle Code Of Inequality In Picturebooks from Jezebel
- Little Brown’s List Of What Makes A Good Picturebook
- Not All Bunnies And Birthday Cake, from Book Riot
- What’s Wrong With Writing Message-Driven Picture Books? from Tara Lazar
- Are children’s books darker than they used to be? This isn’t just about picturebooks, from The Guardian Book Doctor, and the short answer is, “No, kidlit has always been dark.”
- The Unexpected Inspirations Behind Beloved Children’s Books at The Atlantic
- 5 Children’s Books That Make Me Feel Like I’m Drunk from B&N
- Fairytales with minimalist cover designs from Flavorwire
- 20 Great Resources for Children’s Book Writers and Editors, a ScoopIt compiled by Carisa Kluver
- Bronte For Babies, about introducing toddlers to classics, from The Gazette
- Five (Mostly) Vintage Children’s Books By Iconic Graphic Designers from Brain Pickings
- How Children’s Books Approach Modern Reproduction from The Atlantic
- Teaching Kids To Love Themselves And Others Through Books from Jezebel
Perfume
We love the smell of our first girlfriend’s perfume, no matter how cheap or tacky it might have been.
- When Books Could Change Your Life
Here’s a reason to go easy on the cologne: When the Nose Knows: How the Power of My Sniffer is Confirming My Pregnancy.
When I was pregnant I had a super sensitive sniffer and I used to joke that I could steal the job of an airport beagle. I was working in an office at the time, and I was able to tell which of my workmates had already made it into work simply by the co-mingling of their artificial scents which hung around the corridor leading into the main workspace. Otherwise pleasant smells became nauseating.
Response to perfume is very much a cultural thing, too. When I was an exchange student in Japan, I noticed that my host-family had a very low tolerance to any kind of artificial smell. I was into Body Shop products at the time, and decided to stop using them for their sake. It wasn’t just a family idiosyncrasy either — the longer I spent in Japan, the more I realised that artificial floral scents are genuinely unpleasant. Instead, the Japanese prefer clean, soapy, underwhelming smells.
Just in case you’re about to travel to Japan, you might choose to leave the floral perfume at home. It will definitely mark you out as a foreigner!
The Gender Of Evil Baddies In Literature
I’m usually more interested when I see a female baddie in a fictional story, whether on the screen or in a novel, because we seem to be going through a period in which male baddies are a lot more numerous than female baddies. This is the age of the anti-hero. It hasn’t always been this way, as described by Maria Nikolajeva in Children’s Literature Comes Of Age:
- The struggle between good and evil is the most common motif in fantasy.
- In early texts, often written by men, evil is depicted as a female figure.
- Female writers tended to write male monsters (e.g. Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein)
- Male writers made much use of witches
- Examples of out-and-out evil witches in stories written by men: The Queen of Hearts in Alice In Wonderland; her twin in Through The Looking-Glass; the witch in The Princess and the Goblin by George MacDonald; the wicked witch in The Wizard of Oz; the witch in Narnia; The Snow Queen by Hans Christian Andersen
- (I’m reminded of the old tradition of referring to boats: men called boats ‘she’ while women called boats ‘he’, but since men have had more to do with boats over the years, now everyone tends to call them ‘she’.) At the source of this literary gender switching with monsters was perhaps the fact that the opposite sex tended to be regarded as not fully understood and therefore not fully human. This is the theory put forward by Nancy Veglahn, at least.
- For example, Hans Christian Andersen’s problems with women are well-known (apparently): In Andersen’s early life, his private journal records his refusal to have sexual relations. (Wikipedia). C.S. Lewis can be subjected to similar psychoanalysis by critics.
- The opposite sex is not outright evil, but feelings are complicated by sexual attraction and love, which is expressed through the good female images: the reasonable Alice, MacDonald’s emancipated princesses, Dorothy who is both courageous and resolute despite feeling helpless, Lucy as the favourite in the Narnia stories.
- Veglahn also points out that female monsters were primarily sexual symbols.
- But females as evil characters goes all the way back to traditional witches in folktales, or to the ambivalent good/evil progenitor in myths, which may couter Veglahn’s theory.
- Modern female writers who have created evil baddies as male: Madeleine L’Engle, Ursula Le Guin, Susan Cooper, Natalie Babbiet, which also tend to feature male protagonists.
- Stories which do not fit this gender thing are Lord Of The Rings and The Hobbit, but there are hardly any female characters in those stories at all.
- Diana Wynne Jones’ Howl’s Moving Castle is another exception, with a female baddie by a female writer. Or characters in Darkangel by Meredith ann Pierce. In both cases, the authors write of the sexual attraction of the protagonist to the evil monster. Writers (mostly women writers) seem like they’re trying to free themselves from sex stereotyping, thereby creating new patterns.
- There are plenty of other exceptions, and more so since ‘good’ and ‘bad’ become more complicated, but there still seems to be a pattern.
RELATED
Writer’s Digest has a useful breakdown of villainous tropes and archetypes, and of course there is a different set of tropes for the stock characters.
ON XENA AND A LACK OF FEMALE VILLAINS from The Mary Sue
Why Girls Shouldn’t Play Nice from Essential Kids
Why the swooning over difficult men and not difficult women? from Psych Central
I hate Strong Female Characters from The New Statesman, because “Sherlock Holmes gets to be brilliant, solitary, abrasive, Bohemian, whimsical, brave, sad, manipulative, neurotic, vain, untidy, fastidious, artistic, courteous, rude, a polymath genius. Female characters get to be Strong.”
Is Carrie Bradshaw an Anti-Heroine? from NYT Opinion
WRITING STRONG FEMALE CHARACTERS: DEFINING A BITCH from Writer’s Digest
Romantic Comedies
1. I Spent A Year Watching Romantic Comedies And This Is The Crap I Learnt from Jezebel
2. How To Be A Single Woman In A Mainstream Rom-com, from Thought Catalog
3. Romantic Comedies Aren’t What They Used To Be. Then Again, Neither Is Love, from Slate, in response to: Why Are Romantic Comedies So Bad? from The Atlantic
4. A Brief History of Romantic Comedies, also from The Atlantic, followed by What Went Wrong With Romatic Comedies (Part 2).
5. The Top 10 Romantic Comedies according to Hello Giggles, and here’s a list of the worst, at least during the last decade from Pajiba. The Guardian asks for a list of the best AND the worst. Except I’ve recently pledged not to read comments sections, so I’m stuffed.
6. Why Are Romantic Comedies So Awful? speculation from Hot Air, followed by NPR, who asks if they’re dead. (Media outlets are always saying things are dead. Let’s not get carried away.)
7. It’s Not Too Late To Save The Romantic Comedy From Itself from Jezebel, and Don’t Give Up On Romantic Comedies from New Statesman
8. The Romantic Comedies Which Prove You Wrong About Romantic Comedies, from Pajiba
9. These fluffy romantic comedies are actually remakes of horror stories from io9 — I didn’t know there was a difference.
10. The Decline Of Romantic Comedies In 11 Slides from Jane Dough and Five Reasons Why Romantic Comedies Have Gone Downhill from Huffington
11. Every Romantic Comedy Ever, a video shared by Jezebel
12. Women Didn’t Abandon Rom-Coms, Roms-Coms Abandoned Women from Jezebel, who obviously love writing about Rom-coms.
13. 5 Romantic Comedy Tropes That Need To Die from Thought Catalog
14. Six Annoying Women Character Tropes in Black Romantic Comedies from Bitch Media
Zombies and Walkers (Actual Walkers)
The Walking Dead Has Become A White Patriarchy, so I have been going elsewhere for my zombie stories. See also: Walking Dead Writers — Don’t Ruin Carol, from Persephone Magazine. See also Thoughts On Andrea from My Friend Amy. (Anyway, I can’t watch that show. I realised halfway through series one that it’s impossible for most writers to imagine a dystopian future in which society doesn’t revert to big men saving the day while women be pathetic.)
This from feminist writer, blue milk:
I really like Walking Dead, in spite of its many problems. But the truth is, thinking about the show is often better than watching the show.
Why We’re Obsessed With The Zombie Apocalypse from Live Science
The Zombie Manifesto: Marx and The Walking Dead from TSP
20 Essential Zombie Reads, Now with Superheroes! from Tor
Then there’s zombie cake pops and A Zombie door stopper and Baby’s First Book Of Zombies. I want these.
World War Z Concept Art Shows Off the Zombie Designs from Shock Til You Drop
There’s something strangely zombie-like about these creepy anatomical kitchen cooking tools.
The Bestial Virus: The Infectious Origins of Werewolves, Zombies & Vampires from Discover Magazine
WALKERS
Why Don’t Conservative Cities Walk? from Slate
Also from Brainpickings, Maira Kalman on Walking as a Creative Device and the Difference Between Thinking and Feeling.
Michael Moore talks about walking.
For Anyone Who Still Thinks The Male Brain Is Better Suited To Mathematics
1. Undoing Gender Math Stereotypes from Sociological Images
2. Researchers Weren’t Looking For Gender Stereotyping By Parents – They Just Found It, from Mommyish, in which it is discovered that parents talk to their little boys about maths more than they talk to their little girls about maths.
3. The Math Gender Gap: Nurture Trumps Nature from TIME Healthland
4. Five Historic Female Mathematicians You Should Know from Smithsonian
5. Asked why there are so few female physicists, male scientists often cite lack of math skills. Oh really? from The Mary Sue
6. Motivation, Not IQ, Matter When It Comes To Learning New Math Skills from Time
7. What Comes First? Math difficulty, or math anxiety? from Education Week
8. The Truth About Gender And Math also from Sociological Images: “with only the possible exception of genius-level math talent, men and women likely have equal potential to be good (or bad) at math. But, in societies in which women are told that they shouldn’t or can’t do math, they don’t.”
9. Women’s true maths skills unlocked by pretending to be someone else from BPS
10. Regardless of Performance, Teachers Assume Girls Are Worse at Math at Jezebel
11. Gender gap in spatial abilities depends on females’ role in society from Ars Technica
12. Moms Don’t Frazzle Their Daughters with Fancy Math-Speak from Jezebel
The One Big Lie Of Storytelling
There have been some terrible kids’ films released this year. Terrible.
Possibly one of the worst of the bunch is Planes, a Cars spin off from Pixar about a gang of male planes who race each other. Along the way they toss out insults by calling each other ‘ladies’. (This is apparently so funny that it’s included in some trailers.) There are other problems with this movie. I’m not going to pay money to see this one, so that’s where I leave off on my commentary on Planes. Reel Girl has already articulated the main issues, so all I need to do is share.
Suffice to say that this kids’ film, like most, is all about the male experience. Females are the ‘other’.
What I’m most interested in right now is a common counter-argument from people who see nothing at all wrong with a gender imbalance (aka symbolic annihilation of women and girls) in popular media.
The argument goes a little something like this:
“The actual race in Planes is totally dominated by male competitors.” How shocking! You mean in real life the actual race is not dominated by male competitors?… This stuff is silly nonsense.
This feminist whine that animated movies for kids should reflect “progressive feminist” values is the kind of thing that gives feminism a bad name. Why? Because it’s silly overreach as usual.
The idea that animators see machines that race (airplanes, cars, dunebuggies, drag racers, etc.) as a male world isn’t an irrational sexist bias – it’s simply reality. Males – and especially boys – are by nature gung ho about machines to a degree that girls are not is obvious to anyone not wearing feminist blinders. That it’s necessary to point this out these days is a comment on the nuttiness of the feminist whiners who are constantly arguing that these natural differences are not natural but socially imposed. It’s B.S. Boys and girls are different from head to toe and always have been and always will be.
As Margot Magowan points out, in a story about flying planes who have faces and who talk to each other, why on earth should viewers expect some emulation of reality? Filmmakers — especially those with access to vast funds for computer generated imagery, which can nowadays create anything — can choose to tell absolutely any story they want to, yet they choose to tell stories about boys insulting girls.
I may have had a small epiphany recently. Somewhere, I came across this:
Fantasy writers are allowed one big lie.
What this means is that in a work of speculative fiction — especially in high fantasy — the storytellers may create any sort of bizarre world they want to, as long as the details ring true to their readers.
So, if we set a story on a distant planet and have all the characters living inside a bubble, readers are better able to suspend disbelief if the world inside that bubble is similar to the lives of the readers themselves. In this way, writers create a fantasy world which is at once believable and foreign. Because a lot of it looks familiar, the reader is able to relate to the characters. Unless readers relate to the characters, stories fail to stir emotions.
I can’t remember where the ‘one big lie’ advice comes from, but I will link to it later if I find it. But I will say I’ve heard it before. It does the rounds. Storytelling is a dark art, and there are many nuggets of wisdom floating around. I think there is some truth to it.
However:
Are storytellers using this storytelling advice as an excuse to avoid EXAMINATION OF their own sexist attitudes?
First this, from a master of storytelling, who writes of ‘failed’ screenplays:
The “personal story” [one kind of failed screenplay] is understructured, slice-of-life portraiture that mistakes verisimilitude for truth. This writer believes that the more precise his observation of day-to-day facts, the more accurate his reportage of what actually happens, the more truth he tells. But fact, no matter how minutely observed, is truth with a small ‘t’. Big “T” Truth is located behind, beyond, inside, below the surface of things, holding reality together or tearing it apart, and cannot be directly observed. Because this writer sees only what is visible and factual, he is blind to the truth of life.
- Story, by Robert McKee
When the commenter above defends Planes because it’s ‘simple reality’, he speaks of truth with a small ‘t’. Planes is a small film (with a big budget), and speaks the kind of truth that has a very small ‘t’.
On the other hand, a masterful storyteller — nay, a competent storyteller — is indeed able to tell a story which casts females in traditionally male roles, yet it still feels believable.
Some storytellers are even able to write futuristic worlds in which women have equality, and they still manage to tell a truth; not only truth, but Truth. That’s because they are masterful storytellers.
Storytelling is a metaphor for life; not a direct reflection of it.
McKee continues:
[F]acts are neutral. The weakest possible excuse to include something in a story is: “But it actually happened.” Everything happens; everything imaginable happens. Indeed, the unimaginable happens. But story is not life in actuality. Mere occurrence brings us nowhere near the truth. What happens is fact, not truth. Truth is what we *think about* what happens.
- Story, Robert McKee
From the master storyteller himself: Everything happens. Sexism happens. And there is absolutely no excuse at all for the reproduction of outdated, anti-female and outright nasty portrayals of girls in any work of fiction for children.
Consider also the following concepts of storytelling:
‘THE WORLD OF THE WORK’
In talking about what Paul Ricoeur calls “the world of the work”, we assume, of course, that the work offers up a world of its own. Literary works summon such a world through their arrangement and adherence to formal rules; through their use of tradition and genre; through their intent and use of language. We might say that it is through style that literary works become more than the sum of their sentences. Literary works create new worlds by replacing the world itself and it is the metaphorical statement that reveals this operation. “Metaphor’s power of reorganizing our perception of things,’ Ricoeur writes, “develops from transposition of an entire ‘realm’”. Ricoeur calls this realm a “new referential design”, which I specify as the work’s metaphorical design.
- from Goth: Undead Subculture
THE ‘REAL-FICTIONAL DICHOTOMY’
…literary scholars tend to divide characters in terms of what I will call the real-fictional dichotomy. According to this notion, fictional characters, by definition, are “unreal” and human beings “real.” … we “construct an image of a person” by “fabricating [the image] in consciousness.”
carnivalization
I came across this term when reading Maria Nikolajeva, who quotes Bahktin, initially describing the work of Dostoyevsky and Gogol, even though Nikolajeva finds this concept very relevant to children’s literature. (Did you get all that?)
- Children’s book are often criticised for being not true to life.
- In fact, verisimilitude (the appearance of being real) should not be confused with reality.
- ‘Carnivalization’ is a means to achieve a distance from cruel aspects of reality.
- An example of ‘carnivalization’ common in fiction for younger readers is use of allegorical names for people and places, which would never occur in real life, but say something meaningful about the story at hand. (Gogol and Evelyn Waugh do this also.)
- An example of an author for adult readers who has perfected the use of carnivalization is Franz Kafka. The technique is strangely accepted in the work of Kafka, but often questioned by critics when the same thing appears in children’s books.
- The Wikipedia entry on the genre of Carnivalesque
In sum
There is no possible narrative excuse for failing to include more female characters in children’s films.
Storytellers must do away with the idea that in a work of fantasy (e.g. one with talking planes), that no other deviation from reality is possible. Verisimilitude is a robust beast.
‘truth’ is not ‘Truth’, and the slavish duplication of human reality in film indicates a failure to make use of story as metaphor for life.
An audience is able to cope with ‘unreal’ situations in fiction because we understand intuitively the ‘real-fictional dichotomy’. Audiences understand that ‘the world of the work’ is different from ‘the real world’. We get it. We can cope.
The reason these concepts are ‘intuitive’ to an audience is due to a long history of storytelling which makes use of devices such as carnivalization (and metaphor and other figures of speech…)
There is no reason, other than unchallenged sexism, why established storytelling techniques cannot be utilised in big-budget children’s films to reimagine an inequal world.
And though I write here about gender, I am also writing about race.
Interesting Links:
Based on a “true” story: expecting reality in movies
Why newsworthy events do not lead to newsworthy novels, from Nathan Bransford
Only fiction can be about the trivial without being trivial, and more quotes along this line from Explore
The Beautiful Creatures authors give us the rules for creating a believable fantasy from io9
Believable Fictions: On the Nature of Emotional Responses to Fictional Characters
On High Heels, Backwards
At the age of three, Grandmother’s feet had been wrapped tightly witha long, narrow cloth bandage, forcing the four lateral toes under the soles so that only the big toe protruded. This bandage was tightened daily for a number of years, squeezing the toes painfully inwards and permanently arresting the foot’s growth in order to achieve the tiny feet so prized by Chinese men. Women were in effect crippled and their inability to walk with ease was a symbol both of their subservience and of their family’s wealth. Grandmother’s feet caused her pain throughout her life. Later, she braved social ridicule rather than inflict this suffering on her own daughter.
Falling Leaves: The True Story Of An Unwanted Chinese Daughter, by Adeline Yen Mah
I was going to write a long, boring post about the problems with high heels and how they’re the modern equivalent of Chinese foot binding but after collecting a bunch of links I realise that I can’t say anything that hasn’t been said before.
Then there’s this, in a chapter about fashion (particularly in relation to goth subculture) and fetishization of fashion items:
I try to explore both what men were finding erotic about fetish fashion– which did often have to do with phallic symbolism, and with ambivalence about female bodies–and also what women found appealing about it, when they did find it appealing–which some did, particularly younger women. And what kind of fantasies they were constructing around something like a high heel. In both cases there frequently were power fantasies. What was interesting though, is, contrary to what feminists would assume, most male fantasies had less to do with “There’s a woman in high heels who can’t run away from me, so I’m going to catch her and rape her,” but on the contrary, “There’s a woman in high heels who’s going to walk all over me.” Women’s fantasies also tended to be like that: “I’m in high heels, and I can say, “Get down on your knees.” So in both cases, for rather different sets of reasons, there were often power fantasies, or stories about gender slippage.
– from a conversation with Valerie Steele in Goth: Undead Subculture
There’s A Fetish For Everything: Muddy High Heels, from Frisky
What Is It About A Woman In High Heels? asks Slate, in regards to Anthony Weiner. Who else?
While I think everyone should steer clear of talking about ‘feminists’ as an homogeneous group with homogeneous misconceptions, just as everyone should stay away from making assumptions about the wearers of high-heeled shoes, what Steele says is important. Any sexual act or garb can be on either side of the power dichotomy, and it depends on the participant.
So did high heeled shoes start as a regular fashion item which became fetishized, or was it the other way around? The articles below suggest it was the latter:
From Manly To Sexy: The History Of The High Heel from The Society Pages
And here what manly high heels were called. Brand Name From The Past: Sorosis from Fritinancy
The Real Reason Men Stopped Wearing High Heels from The Frisky
Where Did High Heels Come From? Mental Floss.
Sexualization of the female foot as a response to sexually transmitted epidemics: a preliminary study, from Discover Magazine
My own feminist problems with high-heeled shoes have nothing to do with what goes on in the bedroom, and everything to do with the male gaze and objectification of women, and the pain and discomfort and straight out physical damage that happens when women start wearing high-heeled shoes on a daily basis — or worse, when they are required to wear high-heeled shoes as part of their work, as flight attendants are.
Cringe-inducing 3D scan of a woman’s foot bones in high heels from io9
More Women Are Literally Chopping Off Their Pinkies To Fit Into Heels from Jezebel
So Should We Just Start Calling High Heels Body Modification? from Feministe
I also don’t like that female fetishistic fashion has become mainstream for little girls.
‘Mini-Me’ With High Heels of Her Own from the New York Times, about how heels and wedge shoes have become mainstream for little girls now.
Can Evolution Explain High Heels? from Salon, in which the title is rhetorical: some of us think it can. I’m very suspicious of these kinds of studies. (Who on earth funds them?) Too often ‘evolution’ is used to excuse substandard status-quo, especially in regards to maintaining the current power structure. This research argues that high-heels have stayed even as other fashions come and go because they exaggerate the femininity of the natural female gait.
Do Not Want: A High-Heeled Flip Flop, from Frisky, but Reversed Heels Are The Scariest Heels. From LAEM
Stiletto Workouts: Finally, A Way To Get Skinny AND Break Your Foot Bones from Jezebel
Women Wear High Heels Because We Are Idiots, Says Science from Messy Nessy, though of course, women wear high heels because we are so often judged for not wearing them. Which answers the following question: Are Women Foolish To Love Stilettos? from CNN
High Heels And Distinction from The Society Pages
The Frisky’s Guide To Comfortable High Heels, evidence that buyers of such footwear don’t even usually expect the damn things to be comfortable.
Seven Terrifying Beauty Practices From History
Let’s Shop For Shoes In The 194os from Jezebel
It’s all uphill from 35.
Slate has an article out this morning with the title:
Parents Make Better Teachers: Charter schools are hiring young educators who only stick around for a few years. Bad move.
At first glance this looks like flat out age discrimination against people without offspring of their own.
Slate’s is a sensationalist title. The article criticizes an education system which fails to attract and retain older teachers with life experience (and other options, no doubt).
Also this morning I was reading Story by Robert McKee, a writing craft book on the art of storytelling. McKee (himself born in 1941) has this to say about the age of a good storyteller:
You’re willing to risk time. You know that even the most talented writers–Oliver Stone, Lawrence Kasdan, Ruth Prawer, Jhabvala–didn’t find success until they were in their thirties or forties, and just as it takes a decade or more to make a good doctor or teacher, it takes ten or more years of adult life to find something to say that tens of millions of people want to hear, and ten or more years and often as many screenplays written and unsold to master this demanding craft.
This in turn reminds me of something I read in a Guardian profile of Joanna Trollope a few years ago: Don’t seek publishing until you’re 35:
Although the historical romances – published under Caroline Harvey, a combination of her Trollope grandparents’ first names – were an invaluable apprenticeship, she felt they weren’t going anywhere: “It was the wrong genre for the time.” It was her second husband, the playwright and screenwriter Ian Curteis, who encouraged her to “take the gloves off and write about what I knew best”, so she embarked on contemporary fiction, achieving real success in her late 40s. She strongly believes most novelists should wait until they are at least 35 before publishing.
I have to admit, since reading this at about the age of 33, I spent the next three years wondering what glories of insight await me at the ripe age of 35. I turned 35 a few months back, and while I can assure anyone younger that there is no big red button, I do think there’s something to being 35. (So does women’s media.)
When I mentioned this at book club, to a group of women all older than me, the 81 year old listed names of authors who have produced good work well before that age. She mentioned Tim Winton. Actually, that’s all she came up with, and Tim Winton spent the first 7 years of his novelist’s life writing Lockie Leonard, a series for middle grade and young adults. It may be more accurate to say that an author should have either more life experience or more age than the typical reader. It’s easier to achieve age than insight, and publishing is such a competitive industry, why not wait for both?
It does interest me, though, that there is a resistance to the idea that — genius aside — humans do get better at things as we get older. Even the elderly tell themselves the same story, ‘knowing’ that things are easier to learn when you are young. Age is used too often as a reason not to do something new.
Discriminating against anyone’s family status is problematic, even in headlines, but I do take comfort in the idea that it’s not all downhill from 25.
Hysteria
“AS A SOCIETY, WE ENCOURAGE GIRLS AND WOMEN TO BE EMOTIONALLY ACCESSIBLE, AND IN TOUCH WITH THEIR FEELINGS; WE SAY THAT IT’S AN INNATELY FEMININE TRAIT. WE SAY IT, THAT IS, UNTIL THEY HAVE FEELINGS THAT MAKE US UNCOMFORTABLE, AT WHICH POINT WE RECAST THEM AS MELODRAMATIC HARPIES, SHRIEKING BANSHEES, AND BASKET CASES “
1. Stop Telling Girls They’re Hysterical, from The Feminist Wire
2. Hysteria and Femininity: A Tentative Investigation into a Victorian and Edwardian Myth from Early Modern England
3. Why Women Aren’t Crazy from The Good Men Project
4. Penetrating History In Hysteria from Bitch Flicks
5. Why We Need To Stop Saying “Calm Down” and “You’re Crazy” from The Current Conscience
6. Women Who Are Judged Mentally Ill Might Just Be Mad from Women’s eNews
7. This article discusses etymology of ‘hysterical’ and its widened use over time to include the meaning of ‘extremely funny’.
On Commas
The older I grow, the less important the comma becomes. Let the reader catch his own breath.
- Elizabeth Clarkson Zwart
HOWEVER.
Fanfare for the Comma Man from The New York Times
Commas, and what you should know about them from The Baltimore Sun